Wants and Needs
- Maria Falce
- Jun 20
- 2 min read
Who did you become to feel safe, to feel loved? Is that version of you still running the show? Are those beliefs and programs still running, keeping you from the life your heart yearns for?
In How to Human 101 we dive into the beliefs and programs that we created as children...we honor their experience, their wisdom and we love them forward. No parts left behind. No parts forgotten. No parts abandoned. We welcome them into the sanctuary of our internal Safe Haven and hear them, fully.
What happens then? When you have the understanding and skills to hold yourself in safety and love? You have the opportunity to shift how you are in the world. How you navigate your relationships. How you work. How you play. How you care for yourself. You understand your needs on a different level and the adult you can support and hold the young you...and meet those needs.
I remember when I was pregnant with my daughter, a friend who had 2 daughters told me something that has always stuck. Babies only have needs. And needs 100% must be met. When they grow into toddlers they also develop wants and wants can be negotiated...Needs are never a negotiation. Hear that. Feel that in your body... Your Needs are Never a Negotiation. Your needs are a complete sentence. Needs must be met. As adults, we must learn how to meet our inner ones needs, the needs that were not met as children so we can stop projecting those needs out into the world demanding they be met. As adults, that primary responsibility lies with us and we can learn that inner process.
How to Human 101 begins June 23. Early bird rates are still on and payment plans are available. This course is virtual and can be accessed via my website or on the spaces app. We meet on Sunday for group coaching and support on zoom.
Register today!

I felt like I had a safe person in my life as a child. She’s in the spirit realm now, and I feel her.